Tuesday, March 17, 2009

The Fun Does Not End

With grandparents willing and able to baby sit young Harper, Dyani and I went ice skating last weekend and as fun as it was I was completely relieved that we got out of there with no major injuries. I was terrified the first few times around but my wife effortlessly transitioned from sneaks to the blades and sauntered around on the ice like Katarina Witt. I was no Apollo Ohno as the dasher boards were my best friend. Hanging on to dear life at times. Of course, just when I started to get the hang, (well..sort of) the legs and ankles started to give out and we were ready to get out of there. I can't wait to do it again.

Thursday, March 12, 2009

Infant Massage...Take Two

Harper and I attended our second massage lesson today and I'm happy to report that he was the STAR of the class. I was a little nervous because he started out just as fussy as he was last week but, luckily, there was another baby in attendance that outperformed the rest of the little ones. There were six babies including Harper. Lucas was back, and was the senior citizen of the group at 4 1/2 months. There was also the crying baby who we never got to meet because he (and his mom) were too stressed. There was Ewen (or something like that) who was 2 1/2 months and then there was Constantine Francis, also 2 1/2 months. Constantine (a boy in case you couldn't tell by the name) attended class with his mom Mary. Mary was a bit of a talker and by the end of the class I knew probably more about her and Constantine than I cared to know. For instance Constantine is in the 40th percentile for his age (he was premature), he has started sneezing adult-sized boogers, he has poop in every single diaper (which Mary called "presents for Mommy) and we also learned that Connie's mom will "always earn more money than her husband." Despite the fussy baby and Mary's running commentary, Harper managed to tune everybody out and enjoy the class (I think). After reviewing the leg and foot strokes that we learned last week (which Harper wasn't that fond of) we moved on to tummy and chest. This is where Harper catapulted to the front of the class by falling asleep (he was the only one at this point not crying or breast feeding). This session was the whole reason why I signed up for the class. We learned strokes that help sooth babies tummies when they are full of gas. Harper is definitely a gassy gus so I've been on the lookout for any tips that will help us get through those fussy times. The tummy and chest strokes were so relaxing to Harper that he stayed asleep while I was putting his onesie back on and strapping him into his car seat (two activities that usually always evoke some kind of protest). He stayed asleep the entire ride home and slept an hour past his normal feeding time. We practiced the strokes again after his next feeding. This time he stayed awake but he seemed to like the massage just as much!


Harper had his one month check up on Tuesday. He weighed in at 10 pounds, 5 ounces and he is 21 3/4 inches long!



Harper at One Month

Harper can now track the boats on his mobile with his eyes.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Harper's First Field Trip

Harper has been pretty busy since our last posting. He can now focus on people's faces, his toys and his crib mobile. He also likes to spend time looking in the mirror. His is now on a three-hour feeding schedule and he's spending more time awake during the day. The big news is that he is sleeping in his crib! Last week, I put him down for a few naps in the crib and he seemed to handle that well so we just kept going. He has slept in his crib for several nights in a row so hopefully we're safe to put the bassinet in storage until the next kid comes along.


Last Thursday, I took Harper to the first of three infant massage classes that are hosted by the Breastfeeding Center of Washington. When I called to register, they didn't tell me that there was an age requirement but when Harper and I showed up, we learned that we should really have waited until he was six weeks old. The massage therapist said it would be no problem to start a little early but warned me that Harper might not have the attention span to handle more than a few strokes. There was only one other baby in the class (Lucas) and he was 4 1/2 months old. That kid was a massive chunk and looked big enough to eat two Harpers. Lucas was there with his mom, Tatiana. Tatiana was suffering from back problems and tendinitis in both wrists because she said she "held her baby too much." I was hoping to make a new mommy friend from the class but Tatiana and Lucas didn't seem super friendly. The most interesting thing about them was that Tatiana and Lucas had the baby stroller that Jan, Michael from The Office's ex-girlfriend, owned and that Dwight tried to destroy because he didn't believe it cost $1200. Lucas seemed to like being massaged. Harper, on the other hand, didn't quite take to it as well as Lucas. We were working on legs and feet that day. Harper cried for most of the class...the longest hour of my life. I don't think he liked hanging out in just his diapers. Lucas stared and smiled at him the entire time, which I didn't like. Tatiana said she was still breast feeding him but, I kept thinking Lucas was scoping Harper out for his next meal. We made it through the class although it wasn't the peaceful time the therapist promised us. We're going back this week to learn tummy and chest strokes. Harper has become a master at passing gas over the last week so I can imagine that will be another eventful class.


We had a bit of a warm up in D.C. over the weekend so Frank and I decided to take Harper out for his first day in the park. We packed a picnic lunch and headed to Dumbarton Park in Georgetown. Despite all the action (that included a very frisky three-legged dog), Harper slept through the entire outing. He'd spent 45 minutes staring at his boat mobile that morning so perhaps that wore him out. He only cracked his eyes once while we were there.

Tomorrow, we're taking Harper in for his one month check up. Hard to believe we're already there!


Harper meets his cousin Jurnee



Smush Hangs with Harper



Harper was VERY excited to visit the park. Can't you tell?